In loveSlow Burn
63%best estimate
5374
That ±11 is your stress-fit, how steady you each run under pressure, the single biggest factor in whether couples last. It's the one thing four letters can't show.
Compatibility
ESTPMaverick×INTJTactician
You line up on one thing and come at the rest your own ways, more to translate and more to learn. What decides it is a piece we can't see yet.
Real psychology, real nuance. So we show a range, never a fake-precise number. The width is exactly what your four letters can't reach.
As friendsGrows on You
58%best estimate
5066
Friends ride out each other's off days more easily, so steadiness counts for less here, and the range is narrower than in love.
At workFinds its Rhythm
66%best estimate
6171
At work you lean on each other's habits more than each other's moods, so steadiness barely moves the number. The range is narrow, so this read is already close to final.
Why a range?
The range shrinks as we learn more. Right now we only know your four letters.
Four letters (now)
+ your test pins your half
+ their test pinned
How it actually goes
Comes easyYou weigh a choice by the same measure, so a hard call rarely turns into a fight about how to decide it.
Takes translatingOne of you recharges alone and the other in company, so the shape of an evening is a constant negotiation. One reads the facts in front of you and the other the patterns behind them, so you can completely miss each other's meaning.
Why a partner's warmth, steadiness and reliability, and not whether your types match? Across about 3,800 couples, those three predicted how happy people stayed; how well two types matched barely did. (Malouff 2010.)
Take the test → see your matchTakes 4 minutes. It pins your half of the band, the steadiness that actually predicts it, and saves your card.